Field guide · No. 05 · WhatsApp · Social · Dating apps

Investment and romance scams

The tell: Someone you've never met in person steers you toward a platform that always shows profit.

I'm so glad we matched. My uncle taught me a crypto trading method with guaranteed daily returns of 3%. It's risk-free and I've already doubled my savings. Let me show you the platform. Start with just $500 and I'll guide you.

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How it works

  1. Contact starts as a wrong-number text, a friendly message, or a dating-app match. It’s patient and warm, sometimes for weeks.
  2. The conversation turns to money: a trading method, a mentor, a platform. They show “their” profits.
  3. You try a small amount and it grows on screen. A withdrawal even works the first time.
  4. You invest more. When you try to withdraw it all, there’s a “tax”, “fee” or “verification deposit”. The balance on screen was never real.

This pattern is often called “pig butchering”: the victim is fattened with trust before the loss.

The tells

  • You’ve never met in person, and they won’t do a live video call, or the video seems wrong.
  • Guaranteed or risk-free returns. Real investments don’t offer them.
  • A platform you can only reach through their link or an app they send you.
  • Fees or taxes demanded before you can withdraw.
  • Pressure that the opportunity is closing.

What the numbers say

The FTC’s 2025 data put investment scams first by dollars lost: about $7.9 billion reported, out of $15.9 billion in total reported fraud losses.

What to do

  • Stop sending money, however much you’ve already put in. Paying the “fee” to get it back is part of the scam.
  • Check the firm on your country’s financial regulator’s register. If you can’t find it, treat it as fake.
  • Keep screenshots, wallet addresses and transaction records, then report to your national fraud agency and to your bank.
  • Be wary of “recovery services” that contact you afterwards. They are often the same people.

Where to report it

Anywhere in the world
  • Your bank or card provider. First, if money or card details are involved. Use the number on your card.
  • The platform where it happened. Use its “Report” button: the marketplace, the messaging app, the social network.
  • Your local police. If you’ve lost money, and for a reference number your bank may ask for.
  • Your national fraud or consumer-protection agency. Search for it by country; use a government address (.gov or the equivalent).
United States

Links last checked 2026-10-12.

United Kingdom
  • Forward suspicious emails to report@phishing.gov.uk — Handled by the National Cyber Security Centre.
  • Forward suspicious texts to 7726 — Free. Your mobile provider receives the report.
  • Report Fraud (England and Wales) — If you’ve lost money or been hacked. Phone 0300 123 2040.

Links last checked 2026-10-12.

Canada

Links last checked 2026-10-12.

Australia
  • Scamwatch — Run by the national consumer regulator.

Links last checked 2026-10-12.